Popular Nollywood actor Deyemi Okanlawon has sparked widespread conversation online after revealing that he would willingly step away from acting to become a stay at home husband if his wife earned between $1 million and $10 million annually.
The actor made the statement during a recent appearance on the Tea With Tay podcast hosted by Taymesan, where he discussed marriage, masculinity, financial roles in relationships, and modern family dynamics.
In a clip from the interview that has since gone viral across social media platforms, Okanlawon said:
“If my wife makes $1–10 million per annum, I’ll quit acting and be a house husband. I will carry my children to school and cook even though I don’t know how to cook.”
The actor explained that he sees value in partnership beyond traditional financial expectations placed on men. According to him, a man’s worth in a family should not be tied solely to being the primary breadwinner.
Okanlawon added that many men may struggle with such an arrangement because of societal pressure and deeply rooted expectations surrounding masculinity and marriage. However, he maintained that he would be comfortable supporting his family in different ways if his wife became significantly more financially successful.
During the conversation, the Nollywood star also spoke about gender equality, noting that while men and women may possess different strengths, mutual respect and support remain essential in relationships.
Damilola Okanlawon and the actor have often been admired publicly for their supportive marriage. The couple, who met during their university days, share three sons together.
Known for his roles in productions such as Blood Sisters and King of Boys, Okanlawon has previously spoken openly about balancing family life with the demands of his acting career. In past interviews, he revealed that he once temporarily stepped away from acting following concerns raised by his wife before eventually returning to the industry.
The viral podcast clip has generated mixed reactions online. While many social media users praised the actor for his confidence and progressive mindset, others questioned whether such a role reversal would affect respect and authority within a marriage.
The full episode of Tea With Tay featuring Deyemi Okanlawon is available on YouTube and major podcast streaming platforms.